12.4.09

Background on Parental Alienation Syndrome

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Background on Parental Alienation Syndrome

April 12, 2009 — batteredmomslosecustody

Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS) is not based in empirical evidence and has been widely discredited by legal and mental health experts. Many abusers are invoking PAS and parental alienation to convince family courts to ignore children’s allegations of abuse. This can result in custody being granted to children’s abusers.

HISTORY OF PAS

In 1985, PAS was first described by Richard Gardner, a psychiatrist who wrote that adults having sex with children is not a bad thing.[1]

Gardner described PAS as a “syndrome” whereby vengeful mothers employed child abuse allegations as a powerful weapon to punish ex-husbands and ensure custody to themselves.[2] He further theorized that such protective parents enlisted the children in their “campaign of denigration” and “vilification” of the abuser, that they often “brainwashed” or “programmed” the children into believing untrue claims of abuse by the father, and that the children then fabricated and contributed their own stories.[3]

To distance themselves from the discredited theory and its embarrassing originator, proponents of Parental Alienation Awareness Day sometimes claim that Parental Alienation Syndrome and parental alienation are different. In reality, they are often used synonymously and the consequences can be dire. Children can end up in the custody of their abusers.

Since 1985, abusers have come to convince family courts to ignore children’s allegations of abuse by invoking parental alienation and Parental Alienation Syndrome. They wrongly claim that mothers are to blame because they are brainwashing their children.

PAS WIDELY DISCREDITED

1996 – The Report of the American Psychological Association Presidential Task Force on Violence and the Family discredited the theory. It stated:

Although there are no data to support the phenomenon called parental alienation syndrome, in which protective parents are blamed for interfering with their children’s attachment to their abusers, the term is still used by some evaluators and courts to discount children’s fears in hostile and psychologically abusive situations.[4] Family courts often do not consider the history of violence between the parents in making custody and visitation decisions. . . . Psychological evaluators not trained in domestic violence may contribute to this process by ignoring or minimizing the violence and by giving inappropriate pathological labels to women’s responses to chronic victimization. Terms such as “parental alienation” may be used to blame the women for the children’s reasonable fear of or anger toward their violent abuser.[5]

2003 – The National District Attorneys Association’s Center for Prosecution of Child Abuse discredited the theory. It stated:

Although PAS may be hailed as a “syndrome” . . . in fact it is the product of anecdotal evidence gathered from Dr. Gardner’s own practice. [...] PAS is based primarily upon two notions, neither of which has a foundation in empirical research. […] PAS is an untested theory that, unchallenged, can have far-reaching consequences for children seeking protection and legal vindication in courts of law.”[6]

2006 – The American Bar Association’s Children’s Legal Rights Journal discredited the theory. It stated:

PAS’s twenty-year run in American courts is an embarrassing chapter in the history of evidentiary law. It reflects the wholesale failure of legal professionals entrusted with evidentiary gate-keeping intended to guard legal processes from the taint of pseudo-science…. As a matter of science, law, and policy PAS should remain inadmissible in American courts.[7]


2006 – The
National Council of Juvenile and Family Court Judges also discredited the theory. It stated:

The discredited “diagnosis” of “PAS” (or allegation of “parental alienation”), quite apart from its scientific invalidity, inappropriately asks the court to assume that the children’s behaviors and attitudes toward the parent who claims to be “alienated” have no grounding in reality. It also diverts attention away from the behaviors of the abusive parent, who may have directly influenced the children’s responses by acting in violent, disrespectful, intimidating, humiliating and/or discrediting ways toward the children themselves, or the children’s other parent.[8]

CONSEQUENCES

One of the most troubling consequences of Gardner’s theory is that, “PAS shifts attention away from the perhaps dangerous behaviour of the parent seeking custody to that of the custodial parent. This person, who may be attempting to protect the child, is instead presumed to be lying and poisoning the child.”[9]

As a result, some children placed in the custody of their abusers have committed suicide; others have run away, and countless others have endured the abuse and are permanently traumatized. In recent years, children placed in custody of their abusers have been coming forward to tell their stories and to warn of the danger surrounding the fictitious syndrome.[10]


[1] www.stopfamilyviolence.org/373

[2] Gardner, 1992a; 1992b

[3] (Gardner, 1992b, p. 162, 193; 2002, pp. 94-95). – Meier, J. (2009, January). Parental Alienation Syndrome and Parental Alienation: Research Reviews. Harrisburg, PA: VAWnet, a project of the National Resource Center on Domestic Violence/Pennsylvania Coalition Against Domestic Violence. Retrieved 3/10/2009, from: http://www.vawnet.org

[4] Pg 40

[5] Pg 100

[6] http://www.ndaa.org/publications/newsletters/update_volume_16_number_6_2003.html

[7] http://www.stopfamilyviolence.org/media/Hoult_PAS_admissibility.pdf

[8] http://www.stopfamilyviolence.org/media/NCFCJ%20guidebook%20final_2006.pdf

[9] Bruch, Carol S., Parental Alienation Syndrome and Parental Alienation: getting It Wrong in Child Custody Case in Child and Family Law Quarterly, Vol 14, No 4, 2002: 384.

[10] http://www.courageouskids.net/

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11.4.09

Stacie Momany: Sorry (gagged term), the horses have already left the barn!

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April 11, 2009

Stacie Momany: Sorry (gagged term), the horses have already left the barn!

Filed under: Angry gagged term, Assault on your children's mother, Bad gagged term, Best interest of children, Best interest of the child, Best interest of the children, Child Custody Battle, Child Custody Issues, Children's rights, Claudine Dombrowski, Corrupt Judges, Corrupt bastards, Family Courts, GAGGED!, Getting Screwed by the Whores of the Court, Getting screwed by the Family Courts, Guardian Ad Litem, Hate Crimes, Male Sexist Behavior, Maternal Deprivation, Missing children, Missing mothers, Momany, Mother Child Relationship, Noncustodial Mothers, Single mothers, Stacie Momany, Whores of the court, Women's Rights — justice4mothers @ 8:54 am

texas-chainsaw-1974-gagged3After a week, we are finally back up.  Stacie Momany’s ex (gagged term) sought a court order against us to remove the one post we had their PUBLIC COURT DOCKET, outlining about nine years of legal abuse perpetuated by the ex (gagged term).   Also our sister site, www.messagetoourchildren.com , that posts messages for parents or children looking for each other to help them connect had to remove her (gagged term) and (gagged term) name or reference to (gagged term’s)(gagged term).   Her son (gagged term) was over the top in his excitement to find his mom on the internet.  He had not seen his mom in a while because of Stacie’s ex (gagged term) sought to end contact between mother and son.  Her son seems computer savy though, and even though her young son’s (gagged term) and (gagged term’s) (gagged term’s) Whores of the Court and the corrupt or inept judge that wishes to enable (gagged term’s) (gagged term) to continue the legal abuse Stacie has been subjected to, just try and keep (gagged term) or his little friends off the internet.   There are posts spread around the world about her.

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Our last post before going down was “Does Satan Edit Your Website?”  Yes…who knew….we had to edit/delete to get our site back up.  If anyone choses to comment on this post,  just comment on the “gagged aspect” of what the corrupt courts do, and don’t mention Stacie, young (gagged term), or his (gagged term), or according to WordPress, I am required to delete.  Or just post a message of support to Stacie only, don’t mention (gagged term) or (gagged term) please.

So, even though (gagged term) has changed (gagged term)’s name, and had us shut down until we removed what has happened to Stacie and her young (gagged term) in family court, sorry (gagged term).  The horses have left the barn already.  Stacie and (gagged term) have connected, rightfully so, and nothing can change that.  Every effort that you do to continue this effort is done to hurt (gagged term).  We won’t forget Stacie, or every mom that is gagged by the Family Courts, like Claudine Dombrowski.  We are tired of the corrupt system that fails our children, fails good people ALL THE TIME, and rewards their buddies, the corrupt lawyers and Whores of the Court who come before them to do their bidding.

When WordPress took this site down, they also took down all tags to it also.  As I work to put all the tags back up, please try a “search” in the Search Window, at the top of the sidebar, if you are having troubling finding something.  Welcome back friends.


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WORD-SUP-PRESS

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MamaLiberty’s Weblog

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WORD-SUP-PRESS

April 8, 2009 by mamaliberty

WORD-SUP-PRESS

I’m not happy, and when Mama is not happy, NOBODY’S happy.


After hearing that a friend of mine has had problems with Word-Sup-Press “censoring” a mother and child reunion I am appalled, disgusted and we’re moving this blog over to BLOGGER because they don’t give a fuck about men on a mission to destroy any mother bond. (Details to come regarding new move…in the mean time check out, http://rights4mothers.blogspot.com/

I urge any mother who has been abused by the father of your children and you are tired of the corruption of Family Court to use your voice and your words to show that our movement will go forward and we will win.

READ: Gloria Allred’s book, “Fight Back and Win”

WATCH: The Changeling, 2008

BLOG: write about the corruption!

Excerpt from “The Changeling”


CAROL DEXTER

Fuck them…and the horse…they

rode in on.


CHRISTINE

That’s hardly appropriate language

for a lady, now is it?


CAROL DEXTER

Hell, yeah…there are times…that’s

exactly the right thing to say.


CHRISTINE

And when’s that?


CAROL DEXTER


When you’ve got…nothing left to

lose.



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5.4.09

One Childs video diary begins

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The Case of Shirley Riggs
“They jailed mom for protecting her children from abuse. “
The children, all four of them, are currently in Foster homes- “


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The Case of Shirley Riggs

By Carrie K. Hutchens on February 2nd, 2009

Shirley Riggs

Shirley Riggs is accused of unlawfully taking her children and leaving the state triggering an Amber Alert, which is detailed in KCTV5’s “Special Report: Riggs Explains Why She Took Her Kids.”

The report says in part, “On Sept. 20, during an unsupervised visit with her children at her mother’s house, Riggs piled her four children into a van and took off in the middle of the night. They drove to Washington state and spent two weeks in hiding.”

According to the report, Riggs alleges she originally left her husband in 2004 due to abusive behavior and does believe her husband acted inappropriately in the presence of the children. It appears she also believes there was inappropriate behavior between husband and child(ren). Whether this is true or not — the allegations have neither been confirmed nor have they been dismissed as unsubstantiated — why is the father accused and the mother in jail?

KCTV5 reports, “On April 24, 2007, Jackson County Judge Stephen Nixon ordered Shirley Riggs to appear in court in person to discuss her husband’s divorce filing.

“But I was in Oregon. I had no way to get to Missouri,” Riggs said.

Not only didn’t Riggs show up, but her attorney quit that same day, so she had no representation. At that meeting, Nixon ordered the children be placed in the temporary custody of their paternal grandparents.”

It appears that Nixon also continued to allow the husband unsupervised visitation.

What is wrong with this picture?

It is easy for a court to order a person to appear, but it isn’t always reasonable to expect the person to be able to do so, especially when that person is in an entirely different state. Is that what happened here?

Did the judge put Riggs in a no-win situation? Did he tell her, or make it clear, that the hearing was in regard to custody? Did he take into consideration that her attorney quit and she had no representation, before he turned custody of her children over to others and permitted unsupervised visits with someone accused of acting inappropriately with, and around, the children?

KCTV5 further reports, “Despite the sexual misconduct allegations against Raymond Riggs, Nixon continued to allow him unsupervised overnight visits with his kids, which is why Shirley said she took them this summer.

“‘It seemed like all the abuse was being covered up and ignored,’ Riggs said.”

Was it? Is it? Is this still another case of the system not working? Another case where there are little or no “fail-safes” in place to prevent injustice in the name of justice?

“I didn’t really have an exact plan. I just thought someone would listen to me outside the state of Missouri,” Riggs said to KCTV5.

Any action being taken by law enforcement authorities with regards to the allegations against Raymond are unclear.  The Independence Police Department did release this  statement to KCTV5.

Perhaps Riggs wasn’t right to take the law into her own hands, but she does deserve to be listened to and her concerns earnestly investigated and addressed. The system must perform to the highest degree of standards and be held to even higher standards of accountability. This is, after all, a family at risk of injustice.

This is the case of Shirley Riggs, but more importantly — this is the case of the children she took flight with. May justice be theirs.

Carrie Hutchens is a former law enforcement officer and a freelance writer who is active in fighting against the death culture movement and the injustices within the judicial and law enforcement systems. 

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Does Satan Edit Your Website?"

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Does Satan Edit Your Website?"

1 day ago by justice4mothers. — 1 comments

So last night I receive this email…my first reaction was shock…open mouth, drop jaw.  Then came laughter, how sane could I really think this person really is.  Slowly then came a deep sadness…how could this person claim our website is killing children.  Now I am outraged.  Here is the email:

from Antosh Eskay <thehuskyguy@hotmail.com>

to rightsformothers@gmail.com

date Fri, Apr 3, 2009 at 6:07 PM
subject/question: does Satan edit your website, or can you take credit for the lost lives of innoncent children?
mailed-byhotmail.com

details 6:07 PM (19 hours ago)

question: does Satan edit your website, or can you take credit for the lost lives of innoncent children?
shame on you,….
I guess your afterlife is going to be an eternity of “unbearable heat and misery”
unless you find some compassion for the suffering children and other victims of
divorce court.
I pray for your soul…..

Well, “husky guy” here are just a few of the guys that can take credit for the lost lives of innocent children:

Micheal Connolly: Another Family Wiped Out by Dad in Illinois

Josef Fritzl: Josef Fritzl Trial Starts This Week, Court Cleared for Imprisoned Daughter’s Evidence

Craig Wilson: Father Gets 15 to Life for Fatal Shaking of New Years Baby

Davon Crawford: Here We Go Again! Only No Suicide This Time for Father, Rest of Family Shot, Five Dead

Ralph Utley: And the Murder-Suicide Spree Continues…

Pablo Amador: And the Murder-Suicide Spree Continues…

Mark Meeks: Family Dead in Ohio, Another Likely Murder-Suicide by Father

Authur Freeman: Australian Dad Throws Daughter Off of Bridge While Sons Wait in Car

Ervin Lupoe: Another Day, Another Family Killed by Father

Joshua Durcho: Murdered Oklahoma Mom and Children Mourned in Community

Danny Platt:  Dad Kills Son to Avoid Paying Child Support

Bruce Pardo: Guys that Murder: “Gee, He Was Such a Nice Guy”

Rich Saunders: Yet Another Case of Father’s Rights? Custody Battle Blamed For Murder

These are just a few that we have on the site, just very few of the innocent children killed.  You need psychological help, “husky guy.”  Is it possible you have killed a child already, or planning to kill a child to get back at the mother and you are trying to project your behavior/guilt onto someone else?

Sad, how very sad, that there are real people out there like this…and these are the type that are killing the children

Their Silent Cries...

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The Shared Parenting Disaster

 

This is a picture of a child ghost in the movie The Grudge.  The Movie was made by a director that wanted to portray the rage from women over the years from crimes against women especially domestic violence.  In the movie, the mother had a crush on her teacher and records it in her journal.  Her husband discovers her secret crush and breaks her neck in a fit of rage.  As she is dying, her voice box is damaged as she lays on the floor watching her husband drown her son.  She cannot scream or cry in pain.  The only sound that leaves her mouth is a chilling croak.   

In real life, these victims don't come back to make others feel the pain that they endured and it is often why they become our forgotten voices in a landscape of systematic failure.  Perhaps we will look back to this point of history and wonder why indeed these children were forgotten and why something was not done sooner.  We are against groups that encourage violence and child abuse and use excuses such as contact to justify their means to incite terror and silence those who speak out against it.  Unfortunately fathers are represented by undesirables who wish to destroy  all barriers to maintaining abusive control over children and mothers.  Research on homicides has already revealed that some of these fathers and mothers will harm or even kill children to punish their exes.  Homicide stats state that most of these are fathers and whilst fathers Rights groups would prefer to distort these facts and portray that mothers are the major offenders, it simply is not true especially in the dynamics of family violence. 

What we cannot deny is the consequences of history where we have thousands of years and establishment of a world dominated by men.  In the last hundred years, women have begun to have rights in nearly every area and become recognized as equals to men in both home and public life.  Along with women's rights came children's rights that were established by women who knew all to well the dehumanizing status as "property" and seeked to change that area as well.  In the late 70s domestic violence began to peak and later became recognized as a deadly backlash against women and children's rights.   Men's movements began to form as the ones we know today persuading the public that we have too much equality that men are now victims of the woman's movements.  Statistics prove that this is simply not true and their advocacy is disastrous when a majority of their members claim to have been falsely accused of child abuse and domestic violence.  Few horrors that have hit the public have not been untainted by the mens movements attempts to conquer public conversation on violence prevention with the old "fatherless" "false allegations" "It was her fault" "Parent Alienation".  Their arguments have often halted and diverted most public enquiries into victims of child abuse and domestic violence.  Last year, a father abandoned his three year old at a city railway station after murdering her mother.  Her name was dubbed, "Pumpkin" as the story became a world wide issue and a grave reason why more needs to be done on protecting victims throughout the Family Court processes.  Around the same time, Karen Bell lost her three children because she had to go to family court before she could even protect them.  Ingrid Poulson lost her children for the same reasons.   Dionne Dalton warned the family court that the children were in grave danger, but the Family Court handed the children over to the father.  In the next court case, he applied for shared parenting but accused her of being a negligent mother.  The court awarded the father unsupervised weekend access and the next day he killed the children and then himself.  The men blamed the death on not having shared parenting laws and ignored the risks involved.  The freeman's had also raised concerns for two years and just recently lost their only daughter after the father was awarded shared care.  The incident was on Melbourne's west Gate Bridge in front of many motorists and became a worldwide tragedy.  The Family Courts response was less than humane as they attempted to divert responsibility by stating that they were not aware and that the courts documents were "stolen" from the chief justices car. 

Whilst this was going on, a mother named Melinda Thompson is one of 126 mothers on the run from the family courts being hunted down like an animal because she fears for the safety of her children.  How many children does it take before we have some serious changes?

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